Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Tribute to a wife

A few years ago as we traveled down Rt. 221 South near Louisville, GA, we happened to see a sign for a Revolutionary War cemetery. Curious, we pulled off the highway and followed the dirt road back to a small cemetery tucked among the pines. We wandered among the stones in the dappled light, reading the tributes to soldiers and others who lived more than a hundred years ago.

A massive monument with writing on four sides caught our eyes and we thought it must be a tribute to an important soldier.  Here are the words that so captivated us:

A Christian Woman 

is the highest, best gift of God to earth: and here lies one of its brightest exemplifications!
Christianity was with her a sentiment deeply interwoven in all her thoughts, feelings, and affections.

Kind and benevolent, unexacting and charitable, brilliant but humble--
Vigorous in intellect, sweet and lovely in person, meek and gentle in disposition--
her life and character have left their impress indelibly fixed in the heart of those whose wise counselor, and devoted partner, she was through all the vicissitudes of an eventful though brief career.

Though married when young, ardent and hopeful, in the midday splendor of youthful hopes and aspirations, she entered upon her domestic duties with an energy and devotion which could feel no decline; and by the purity and vigor of her own character she won from the most slavish passions, him whose welfare was her highest happiness, and whose character was her own handiwork.

Her exalted mission accomplished-- she laid down her Cross,
Took up her Crown,
and now sweetly rests in the bosom of her Savior.


Mary H.    daughter of Mary & Dr. Wm. Savage
wife of Col. A.R. Wright
born Dec. 28, 1825    married Apr. 26, 1843
died June 23, 1851

What a tribute to a true I Peter 3 wife!  "1 ¶  Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2  While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
3  Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4  But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5  For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6  Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.


  1. What a find! Thanks for posting this.

  2. What a sweet and beautiful legacy.

    She was living her life to the fullest for the glory of God and after her death and all these years has continued to bless others.

    Thank you for sharing that with us.

  3. so beautiful, but so hated by many. I love these words and I have just been so saddened this week by the enemy who hates them. But I will not be persuaded otherwise, these are the words of our Lord and I know they are true and wonderful, like all of God's Word is, none should be taken away or added to. thank you for posting this encouraging post Mrs. Need, I really needed it today.

  4. Love the post. I have enjoyed reading your blog and have joined. I enjoy seeing history and when it has Christ envoled it makes it that much better.

  5. What a beautiful tribute! Thank you so much for sharing. To God be the Glory!

    Have a Blessed Weekend!

  6. I was so happy to find your blog and so encouraged by the things you have written. I am also bummed that you haven't written in quite a while. Hope you come back soon!
    Cory =)

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  8. Going through some old papers tonight I found an old piece of paper on which I had written the same tribute some thirty years ago when I stopped there at that cemetery to eat lunch on a three month bicycle tour. I took the time to write down every word but neglected to make a note of where it was. I was so pleased to "Google" one line of it and came come across your blog with the answer. Thanks for the post.